It is like herding cats. Even when your goal (unlike that of the dog above) is worthy, beneficial, and biblical with the best interest of your friends at the center of what you do.
Pastoral work - all of it - is tied to the relationships you have with the people God has placed you on mission with. There's no "work friends" and "real friends". You begin each week praying for them to God. While you study the Bible and listen to what the Spirit is saying they are on your mind and heart. The message is crafted (just as all the teaching is - just as the music is - just as the events are - just as... everything is) to the glory of God and the building up of the faith in your fellow believers.
You will experience resistance. (BIG GRIN - and all the pastors reading this go "duh")
You will be disappointed when people you thought were farther along trip over things they should long since picked up and moved aside.
And there will be times when you just want to run into the woods. Or to the beach. :)